So another slow motion for the pas few weeks, and I can tell you that there is no fireworks or what so ever. Things just work normal, boring ! Wake up in the morning, go to work, have a simple 'jalan-jalan', hang out with friends, boyfriend, go to sleep with dreams in it. Watta life. But, I believe someday, in another mind position, in a better mood, I would say that these things are a phase, a phase that makes me who I was, who I am, and who Um gonna be next, even for now i feel like a walking zombie.
Still spending those days wondering ? well maybe you are just like me. And here some words during my date with my manic.
All the things finally come to this sentences, that maybe i don't understand people, I don't see things. And so maybe i don't get what's wrong with me, or why am i so mad ? i don't know why do i put things off, but if i had to guess I'd have to say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you're wrong? What if you're making a mistake you can't undo? . We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. Until we finally understand for ourselves what it's meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying.
Pain, you just have to ride it out, hope it goes away on its own, hope the wound that caused it heals. There are no solutions, no easy answers, you just breath deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed but sometimes the pain gets you where you least expect it. Hits way below the belt and doesn't let up. Pain, you just have to fight through, because the truth is you can't outrun it and life always makes more.
At the end of the day, when it comes down to it, all we really want is to be close to somebody. So this thing, where we all keep our distance and pretend not to care about each other, is usually a load of bull. So we pick and choose who we want to remain close to, and once we've chosen those people, we tend to stick close by. No matter how much we hurt them, the people that are still with you at the end of the day - those are the ones worth keeping. And sure, sometimes close can be too close. But sometimes, that invasion of personal space, it can be exactly what you need.
And all i need now is a nice companionship, that's all i ask, that's all i need.
Still spending those days wondering ? well maybe you are just like me. And here some words during my date with my manic.
All the things finally come to this sentences, that maybe i don't understand people, I don't see things. And so maybe i don't get what's wrong with me, or why am i so mad ? i don't know why do i put things off, but if i had to guess I'd have to say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you're wrong? What if you're making a mistake you can't undo? . We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. Until we finally understand for ourselves what it's meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying.
Pain, you just have to ride it out, hope it goes away on its own, hope the wound that caused it heals. There are no solutions, no easy answers, you just breath deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed but sometimes the pain gets you where you least expect it. Hits way below the belt and doesn't let up. Pain, you just have to fight through, because the truth is you can't outrun it and life always makes more.
At the end of the day, when it comes down to it, all we really want is to be close to somebody. So this thing, where we all keep our distance and pretend not to care about each other, is usually a load of bull. So we pick and choose who we want to remain close to, and once we've chosen those people, we tend to stick close by. No matter how much we hurt them, the people that are still with you at the end of the day - those are the ones worth keeping. And sure, sometimes close can be too close. But sometimes, that invasion of personal space, it can be exactly what you need.
And all i need now is a nice companionship, that's all i ask, that's all i need.
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